[daddymatty82]

sorry everyone i know iv got under some peoples skin and may have offended people so today  after alot of troubles im sorry  but i have leave  i got a call from the landlady  saying she saw what i wrote online so as i dont know where or what i said but as she says its slanderous. so as to not offend anyone again im limiting my forums if you still want to know me or still want to have chat pm me or at least comment and il pass on my email or other means of contact cheers for a good time that i have had on here and the knoledge i have gained through this site hope to hear from you i will be gone on sunday to give time on replys etc  cheers all have fun matty

[Sandy]

Ta tar , not sure how you offended anyone but there you go, it's easy to do on tinternet!!! I type quicker than my brain works and so often post stuff I wish I had not!!!!!

[plumseverywhere]

oh dear, that's a shame - can't you change your username and stay? I didn't think you'd offended anyone on here?
Sandy's right - the written word is hard to interpret at times so offence can be taken when none is meant. if its a case of what's happening with the landlady then please don't go from here     

[daddymatty82]

well atm im limiting my sources so i can get an idea of where she saw it  and what was said but untill i know how she got the info and how i was slandering this other bloke its just to cover my back i dont want to go but if anyone has facebook please pm me and il add you. yes its my fault yes i do write stuff without thinking  but i mean no harm in what i say but if they say its bad then i can only apolagise and call it quits atm im deleting most of my posts so if you commented on something and cannot find it you will now know why.

[Mickyork]

If someone is petty enough to take something that serious then they are not worthy of anyones time. You should not let that stop you being who you are & saying what you think. What happened to freedom of speech???  We are allowed our opinions weather others like it or not.
Don't leave this site if your happy here because someone don't like what you have written. They don't have to read it if they don't like it.
b*****ks to them is what I say. I have upset lots of people by not thinking about what I say, it happens. You never mean to do these things & if people weren't so small minded they would look past these things.

[pikilily]

Hiya,

Just had a quick scan thru.....maybe its the recent comments about the condition of the other horses in your fields ?? I am just looking at it from the other owners point of view.!!! .....NOT MINE!! I personally think that youy shouldnt have to stop this forum. .

.. maybe a lesson to us all that this is a very small world and you never know who may read your posts. :-P

Anyway, dont crawl under a rock... if you have made a mistake (we all do) , learn from it and hold your head up!
Cheers Emma T

[plumseverywhere]

have pm'd you.

agree with Emma - you shouldn't have to stop using TAS. at the end of the day, all you said was that the horses were a bit lardy     

[supplies for smallholders]

Hi,

I agree, stay on the forum and continue to say what you think and believe.

Don't worry about upsetting people by what you say, everyone on here is a "grown up" and if they dont like what you say, then they can choose to disagree or simply ignore your post.

cheers

[daddymatty82]

well i am here for a while and had a great time im moving my girl sunday and then thats it rid of that place.

[Jackie]

Ach! Dont worry about it Daddymatty, I often upset people lol look at the market section to see my recent effort! I even had the 'boss' telling me off. BTW I stand by what I said but thats a whole different subject. 

You will always be welcome here, Im sure, for as long as you wish to post. 

[juliag]

S***,  I stay off for a few days and miss all the fun, isnt that always the way!! Well at least it wasnt me offending everyone this time!! Come back............ we dont care....... we all do it!1lol

[Frieslandfilly]

Hi, dont know what you have written but if it is based on fact or truth then it is not slanderous. Dont worry about it, I have read many a post on all kinds of forums that border on slanderous (sometimes murderous) LOL but what a ridiculous world we live in if we take notice of everything that is written and react to it. As a previous poster said, just learn from it and move on, dont go if this forum is useful and helpful (which it is) 

[Daveravey]

If someone is petty enough to take something that serious then they are not worthy of anyones time. You should not let that stop you being who you are & saying what you think. What happened to freedom of speech???  We are allowed our opinions weather others like it or not.

b*****ks to them is what I say. I have upset lots of people by not thinking about what I say, it happens. You never mean to do these things & if people weren't so small minded they would look past these things.

My sentiments exactly   

What's it got to do with yer landlady anyways ?

[bazzais]

Your bound to get 'flamed' in 'real time' if you slag someone's horses off (thats the horse world for you!)  - but it doesn't necessarily make you wrong to do so.  This situation should not mean that you need to feel threatened just for giving your opinion on a subject matter.  You maybe right, you maybe wrong - we've all been both - sometimes we have to eat humble pie sometimes we dont, but we've all been there with you.

Yes in future you may think 'I better not write that, as I could be taken the wrong way' but thats a skill we can only develop.  I spend ages writing every forum post I make so as to be sure that I cannot be misconstrued (or partly because my written english is s**t!)

You obviously have not broken any terms on TAS as your profile would have been deleted, so dont go - stay join the conversation.

Ta

Barry

[daddymatty82]

thankyou everyone for the support means so much i am the kind of person that will always win at what i do i feel i have not slandered anybody and only told the truth. As it seams i have spys watching me of the ex landlady i will most proberly stay. But will stay off untill i find out which source it was that whatever i said was taken from   so sunday will be my last day atm for a while as i dont want to leave something i like doing. But as i have a young daughter i cannot risk being reported to the old bill so am goin to lay low  or at least take a bk seat for a while so if you all ever want a chat while im not here pm me as i wont post for a while. If that at all makes sense. And can i just say i really think of you all like a great big family now as there are a few goodens out there  thankz guys matty.