However now we pretty much ignore our hens save for keeping them watered, fed and occasionally cleaned out.
Oh womble - how could you. Hens make my day, every day
(I know you really mean for care.)
We had a couple of panics in our first two years with lambing, but you have to make mistakes to learn. We also learnt to be selective about
whose advice you take - not all folk with years of farming/smallholding under their belts will do things in a way you would want to.
Also, don't be afraid to admit when you need to take a step backwards. We had always been desperate for pigs, breeding pigs (I grew up on a pig and turkey farm, with a couple of hundred sows). Eventually we thought we were ready and bought our first two Tamworth piglets. They grew quickly and were such fun - they love to race and play. However, they soon reached the age at which they needed to breed, and we knew we couldn't cope, with inadequate housing, as well as with sending such intelligent animals off to slaughter. So we sold our gilts on to an organic breeder and all was hunky dory. They lived in woodland and had a lovely life of sex, babies and food
We knew that if we changed our minds and felt we were able to keep pigs later on then we could start again.
It's the same with the breeds you choose. You might have your heart set on a particular breed, but once you have them you realise they are not suitable to your land, or your system. Nearly all animals are edible, so fill the freezer and try again.
Most importantly, once you get over those first couple of years, and your confidence grows, you will know what to do routinely so the pressure is off and you can really enjoy what you are doing.
For what to do when, it is always a good idea to meet your vet and get their advice on working out a plan of vaccinations, worm testing and treatments when you start. It helps them to know you before you have an emergency, and for you to know them. Work out a husbandry calendar as a guideline, to be modified as you go along.
I also found it useful to work out a day to day routine of what work had to be done each day and when, such as letting the poultry out and shutting them in at night, watering the veg garden
and so on, so you know the things which have to be done no matter what else crops up.
We also named each of our fields to avoid confusion, and we still have those names such as the Soay paddock, even though we don't keep Soay any more
And you really don't have to know it all before you start. We are so lucky to have TAS now - when we started up we didn't even have a computer let alone TAS