She Who Must Be Obeyed
I suppose the opposite is HWGI - He Who Gets Ignored 
What am I doing wrong? I so get the opposite. I said to BH once, "I don't think you listen to half of what I say." He replied, "I don't listen to that much."
And in previous relationship, I decided to give a special 10th anniversary gift. Everything I was still 'reminding' about after ten years, I just stopped mentioning. Nagging was clearly not working, and despite what they all think, we
don't enjoy doing it! I figured things would be the same whether I nagged or not, and we'd both be happier without the nagging. Most people, hearing this story, say, "Oh! What a lovely present!" But I don't think he noticed...

(See above re: the listening...

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