Thanks everyone for this, it has been a great help and as I type I have been reduced to tears

Probably of relief that is one thing she can't get the better of me.
All I want to do is get by, live life quietly, happily, ensuring that my family and animals are healthy
And live within my means and achieve this by working hard, being fair & honest, considering others.
As for my neighbour, well.....without being slanderous all I can question is her integrity, mental health, and hold my head high and not lower myself to her standards. She has tried to influence my other neighbours, who are exceptionally wealthy and powerful in my area but that has back fired as they came and told me what she was saying, and have offered me legal/professional advice. So they now no what she's capable of too.
Thanks to all
Mojo