im not a horsey person, i trek with my daughter twice a year but thats it. but today my landladys tb hunter was running riot round the field and i caught him!! i called him over, (mr t) walked sideways on towards him, without looking him in the eye, sort of offered some grass, still not lookin in the eye, i walked towards him then backed off when he backed away, eventually, after a few trys he took the grass, let me stroke his flank, and then i caught his saddle, still stroking and talking to him as my landlady got the halter on him, i was so chuffed!! and so was she!! im not very relaxed around horses, but today i was and it worked. definitely earnt some brownie points and a bit of a boost to my horse experience too. ive read alot on here about pressure/release and sort of managed to put that into practice today, so thank you