I am 100% certain that Harry is not on the Autism Spectrum, but didn't know if this unit helped with ADHD e.t.c.
I thought the same about Kaitin Miri, no way she could be autistic - she loves cuddles and has no problems communicating. I just ruled it out, but with the ADHD there were some things that just didn't apply to her and some that did.
It wasn't until one of the teachers mentioned high functioning autism and told me she was convinced that Kaitlin was showing some of the classic symptoms (she's had a lot of experience with autism) that I looked into it more. 91 people in every 10,000 have autism, of this number 20 have what i would call 'classic' autism - difficulty communicating, dislike of touch etc and will need considerable help and support all through their lives. The other 71 have 'an autistic spectrum disorder' aspergers, high level autism etc they are able to live relatively 'normal' lives, without supervised care etc.
High level autism / aspergers (don't think they're exactly the same thing, but similar ?) kids do tend to be intellegent, they excel at whatever sparks their intrest but tend to flit from activity to activity causing disruption when they're not interested. They are awkward in social situations and don't always repond appropriately to others - no respect of personal space, saying something that may offend etc. I got a few books out the library and they made for really interesting reading - so many things that just described Kaitlin to a T. Like Harry, Kaitlin's smart (too smart !) not clumsy, but always in a rush which leads to lots of spilled juice (just like Harry lol!) and just generally seems 'out of her depth' at school or with large groups of kids, at home or on a one to one basis she's fine.
In my area it's 2 seperate departments that deal with ADHD and autistic spectrum disorders, it might be worth asking for a referall to both - maybe like Kaitlin, Harry's going to be one of these 'complex' cases, with bits and pieces of lots of things going on - TELL me about it I hear you say
There is an assesment tool they used - it's called a BOXALL profile (you can get it by googling) maybe it's worth having a go at filling it out yourself for Harry and see what you think. It doesn't make the easiest of reading but it might give you a clearer idea of what's going on.
It's a long, hard fight at times to get anywhere and quite often banging my head against the wall seems like a more appealing option - but I'm hoping it'll all be worth it in the end.
Good luck and remember we're all here for you when you're feeling down