We live in a small rented cottage. We also rent 4 acres of land about 3 miles away. It's not ideal as we're not actually on site, but it's the only realistic way we could afford it at the moment. It's a hassle having to go there every day, particularly juggling work as well, but we're up for the graft as it gives us as close as we can get to where we want to be.
We'd love to be in a position to buy a 7 - 10 acre site with farmhouse - but that's pretty pie in the sky for us at the moment (unless i happen to find a winning lottery ticket!).
I think it's about looking at the problem differently - don't assume the only way you can do it is to buy something ideal right now. Break it down into what you really want, and can afford, and that fits into your lifestyle at the moment, and then find a way of doing that. There will be compromises along the way, and it may take you on a more winding path than you think, but it makes the journey more interesting!
Good luck.