What a lovely description, sabrina.
Isn't it funny how we put off, don't quite get around to spending time with our ponies - and then when we do, we nearly always have a brilliant time with them, even if it's only a short session.
I was talking about this with an experienced horse trainer and we both thought there was a bit of fear of failure in it. Until we spend time with the new boy / girl, everything is possible. If we do some work and some problems appear, some of that potential disappears. So it's kind of scary to go and take the next step.
I have just started working with a Dually (Monty Roberts) halter and am finding it a real boon. All but one of the ponies (Mrs Bossy Boots - doesn't like anyone else being boss) took to it right away and are loving the attention. It gives me a huge amount of confidence, so I do more with them and am a lot more calm and able to give them leadership. I'll hit problems again downstream when we get to things I don't know very well myself, of course!
But for now it's a joy.
Hmmm, reading your story again - I must get Flossie on that Dually back into the pig pen ... The trouble is, pigs give way to no-one and are always interested in feet!