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Community => Introduce yourself => Topic started by: daddymatty82 on May 16, 2015, 05:22:15 pm
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Hi all been long time since I been on here had a tough 20 odd months. But still I'm getting there. Basically long story short went on holiday to Brean camping 2013 come back 24th August that night my ex tells me my eldest ain't mine . I go mad then decide talk it through within 2 mins of telling her get away from me. So we decided would work it out. Then 31st was girls 6th birthday hardest day since as my girls birthday but had it a secret from family . Then family finds out. and 22nd January 2014 I come home sick from work at lunch ex picks me up few hrs in bed I get up make dinner text call the ex nothing. Get text explaining she wasn't coming home etc so I'm left with no transport no money amongst other thing's. Anyway June I get evicted and now back with parent's with my whippet and 3 ferrets all the chicken's I had I gave mum for her flock. So all in all I lost money transport pet's as I had to re home my terriers cats went with ex also other animals family friends transport my life just disappeared basically but it's life end of the day. Hopefully all going good atm i started sea fishing go once or twice a month and enjoy it alot . So hello all . Cheer's matty.
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Hi matty. You have been through the wringer. Good to see there is light at the end of the tunnel. :sunshine:
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Sorry to hear that Matty, hope things have turned a corner for you. :fc:
Good to see you back here too. :thumbsup:
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Jeez, you've had a time of it right enough. Hopefully that's the crap behind you and things are on the up. Welcome back :wave:
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:wave: Matty. You've really been going through it. :hug: You're among friends here so have a rant if you want to at any time.
Are you managing to see the children?
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Cheer's everyone. Basically I see my youngest every 2 weekend's (this weekend ) from Fri afternoon to Sunday at 6pm on the dot. My eldest (that isn't mine) iv not seen properly since August last year so it's done it's toll on me . When you lose your family friend's home money pet's transport life it does make you think a little so atm I'm living pay cheque to pay cheque after help from brother to clear my debts and myself clearing debts my ex ran up for me with rent and council tax. We had to sell the sheep couple yrs back . I got my first ferrets that day aswell lost a few sold a few and gave a few away. I get cockerals from a local guy and they go for dog food. And a few fir ferret food. Had a total of 17 ferrets all in all sold and a few babies were eaten by mother at week old. Now have 32 jills 1 hob. Hobs called general and my youngest (3) loves him to bit's and he is soft as soft can be. He let's her pick him up with no biting. 2 jills pregnant by him and 1 popped few days ago now just one left to pop.
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:raining: i think if you've raised a child, he's yours in heart. maybe you'll see him more when he's older and able to decide for himself.
and hope things are improved for you workwise, its really hard trying to get things back on track. :sunshine:
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You've had a really tough time but I hope it makes you stronger and you can continue onwards and upwards. Good luck
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:hug: :hug: from Sylvia
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My eldest daughter is mine I still tell her if she comes to pick up younger sister from me on the Sunday with grandma I always make a fuss of her give her a kiss alot of it is my ex and her real dad .Il bide my time and when she a young lady old enough to do as she pleases il be there 100 % il tell her what really happened everything the truth that is. I have her name tattooed on my wrist and Same as I have her sister on the other and they both will always be part of me till I die.
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It's a tough old slog but you will get there, been through similar ringer myself, just keep pushing forward you will get there. Shame you weren't closer to Scottish Borders cud av kept your ferrets supplied with rabbits