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Community => Coffee Lounge => Topic started by: Roxy on August 24, 2010, 02:47:39 pm

Title: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Roxy on August 24, 2010, 02:47:39 pm
I have held on to my computer until the last minute, but sadly it will have to  go into the storage container with the rest of our household stuff - and it could be months before I see it again. 

We have to be out of the house, land and outbuildings by weekend.  I still have my land up the lane, where the hens and goats are, but there is no room for the 5 dogs, which is a worry.  We are trying to get our caravan on somewhere, but although we are in a tourist area, and there are campsites, not many round here take caravans, just motor homes and tents.......due to Peak Park etc.  Funny how motor homes are allowed though - caravans have wheels too.

Cannot buy anywhere until after the auction, and we still have a house to sell as well.

I will miss my computer a lot, but can manage without the telly!!
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Daisys Mum on August 24, 2010, 02:49:36 pm

Goodbye and good luck Roxy, hope to hear from you soon  :wave:
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: jameslindsay on August 24, 2010, 02:58:59 pm
Hi Roxy, you are going to be greatly missed but we look forward to your speedy return. I hope all goes well at the weekend and coming months. Hopefully in no time at all you and all the animals will be settled in to a new home and can start to relax again.  Stay strong and keep smiling, big hugs - James.  :bouquet: I will miss your banter. :)
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Daveravey on August 24, 2010, 03:01:50 pm
Good luck Roxy
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Post by: plumseverywhere on August 24, 2010, 03:09:09 pm
Good luck Roxy - will miss you!! hurry back xx
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: sheila on August 24, 2010, 03:24:49 pm
good luck roxy! head to the library now and again and use their computer to let us know how you are doing,
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: little blue on August 24, 2010, 03:30:15 pm
all the best Roxy, let me know if there's anything I can do.
hope it all works out ok, and you, Mr and the animals are quickly settled somewhere nice...
x  :)
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Mo on August 24, 2010, 04:08:19 pm
I don't know you well but all the best  :)
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Cinderhills on August 24, 2010, 04:14:24 pm
Good luck with everything.  :wave:
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Sylvia on August 24, 2010, 04:51:16 pm
I wish there were something practical I could do, I can only wish you all the best of good luck  and hope things work out for you.
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: doganjo on August 24, 2010, 05:29:20 pm
Good luck, Roxy - I feel for you being chucked out of your own home, ask someone to give that brother of yours a good shake!  Look after yourself - looking forward to hearing you are settled in a nice place very soon.
xx
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Rosemary on August 24, 2010, 05:32:04 pm
Good luck and hurry back!
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: storm35 on August 24, 2010, 05:41:26 pm
Goodbye Roxy and best of luck, hope you get sorted asap xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Roxy on August 24, 2010, 05:59:58 pm
Thank you everyone.  I have been so busy lately with packing things, have not had time to dwell on the actually "going" bit.  When I close the door for the last time it will probably get to me.  I have a friend in a similar situation, and she came round the other day, and instead of cheering me up, she hugged me and burst into tears.  I had to send her home before she set me off :D

Having looked at property for sale (in other areas) I can see that there are some nice places, a lot cheaper than we would pay here.  At the moment we are favouring Cumbria, or Scotland.  As anyone house hunting will know, you get your hopes up, then in the property details you spot something that puts you off a bit .....like, the owner is retaining one field to put houses on, or they proudly announce the main road is only 200 yards away.

As isolated as possible would suit us, I would be quite happy living on the moors with nice scenery, and nothing to make the dogs bark (although knowing them, they would find something!!)

I will try and get on line the library, but will have to rejoin - burnt my library ticket on my infamous bonfire, when I burnt my bag and purse ;D
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Hilarysmum on August 24, 2010, 06:04:24 pm
Good luck with the future Roxy, hope that soon you will look back on this time as the gateway to a new and far better one.  Try to pop in occasionally
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: CameronS on August 24, 2010, 08:38:54 pm
Good luck, fingers crossed for you  :hshoe:
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Post by: knightquest on August 24, 2010, 09:16:40 pm
All the best Roxy. Hope you get sorted real soon.

Ian
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Daisy on August 24, 2010, 09:33:06 pm
Good luck with everything, you know you are very welcome here if you are coming up to Scotland to view property  :wave:
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Jackie on August 24, 2010, 09:33:57 pm
It will all go well Roxy and its quite an adventure! A whole new place for you and your animals.

When you come back we want all the gritty details.  ;D
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: ballingall on August 24, 2010, 09:35:18 pm
Oh Roxy, I hope the auction goes as well as can be expected, and that you find someplace soon. If I can help in any way, let me know- a place to stay etc etc.

Beth
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Sandy on August 24, 2010, 09:38:15 pm
Life turns up with some hiccups at time, hope yours are gone soon and you end up somewhere wonderful, good idea to pop into a libray on occasions to  use thier computor...I missed the internet when we moved but kept having to find internet cafes and the libray...hope your back soooooon!
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: ser3dan on August 25, 2010, 07:11:15 am
Good luck Roxy - I hope things sort themselves out for you. Having had to pack up my things and store them I know what you're going through, but I took the view that it's the start of another adventure - both my girlfriend and I are looking to move to Scotland so we may see you up there!  :wave:
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Sharondp on August 25, 2010, 07:48:42 am
Good luck with everything!
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Brucklay on August 25, 2010, 09:31:08 am
Wishing you the best of luck Roxy - your post re
"isolated as possible would suit us, I would be quite happy living on the moors with nice scenery, and nothing to make the dogs bark (although knowing them, they would find something!!)"
made me laugh - our dogs used to bark at people passing the garden - now we've moved to Aberdeenshire, surounded by fields, they bark at tractors 2 miles away!! At least they're happy.
Really hope you find somewhere that suits your needs and you and your animals get settled soon  :wave:
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: HappyHippy on August 25, 2010, 09:37:20 am
Roxy, I hope everything goes okay for you and look forward to your return  ;D
I can also offer somewhere to stay if you're coming up this end of the country househunting, just get in touch.
Take care, Karen xx
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Fluffywelshsheep on August 25, 2010, 09:43:43 am
good luck hope you get something soon , could you not 'park ' on the other bit of land you have

Linz
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Roxy on August 25, 2010, 10:56:31 am
I am still here ....but MUST unplug the computer etc. today, or I will be in trouble off hubby.  Managed to find a really cheap storage place about 5 miles away, so thats good.  Its at times like this you wish you did not have 12ft church pews, great old heavy dressers, and other odd things that need to go into store!!  And of course all my antiques and collectables, which I am fussing about what if they get broken.......

Cannot park caravan on my other land, we are in an area of outstanding beauty you know, but they did let Tesco build their large shop in a field outside the village, and what is beautiful about a supermarket??

Trying to sort out what clothes to keep out of the packing boxes, and have decided its horrible and wet and chilly, so summer trousers and shorts and tops are all in the boxes, and out came the fleeces, hats, and bodywarmers ......just watch us have a heatwave mid September :D

Have worked out, I may be lucky and be able to collect the apples from the orchard before the new owners take over. Our apples are not usually ready until early October.....so should just manage it.  Sad about the apple trees, uncle planted those 50 years ago when he moved in, and they are lovely apples :(
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: RUSTYME on August 25, 2010, 12:14:02 pm
Hope all goes well for you Roxy .... such a shame to lose the place .
 As for the apples , you can take cuttings and graft them onto root stock that you can buy for the job . At least that way you would still have the same tree ,and thus apples , that your uncle planted. Grafting is really easy , you can normally do it with prunings !!  By grafting onto different root stocks , you can get some small trees (small ones /bushes ) that will fruit in a year or two and others that will take a few years  .
Best of luck with finding a place soon ....

cheers

Russ
Title: Re: Goodbye for a while
Post by: Roxy on August 25, 2010, 12:24:39 pm
Thanks Russ - yes I did think about taking cuttings.  I also wish I had taken more notice of my old uncle, who was a font of knowledge about gardening, and his cuttings always took.  I still smile thinking of the time we took him on a trip to Lincoln, when he was in his early eighties. We were strolling round Lincoln castle, and he spotted a nice shrub.  Without further ado, he took out his penknife and took a cutting.  That little cutting, 6 years later is now a beautiful big shrub in corner of the front garden :D  Very wet and windy yesterday, and a lot of the apples have blown down, so plenty for the horses and goats to eat.