The Accidental Smallholder Forum
Community => Coffee Lounge => Topic started by: chriso on June 03, 2010, 08:45:31 am
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It's been a bad day here in west Cumbria, 12 innocent people shot dead and many more injured. One of the dead lived on a local farm and seemed to be getting it going as a nice smallholding. Such a shame.
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A very sad day and much more so for you people closer to it and directly affected. No words can do justice to what we want to say.
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Very very sad :'( the fragility of the human mind and what it can do - frightening and sad.
It must have been a scary day for you Chriso? how are you feeling?
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A very sad day indeed and our sympathy to all the people involved But the chap that did it surely must have had a brain storm poor man.It must be absolutely terrible when one comes round and realises what you have done.No doubt it will all be revealed at the inquest.So very very sad for all concerned.Think what the man's relatives must feel. :( :farmer:
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Just goes to show anything can happen at anytime and we should all make the best of every day. Such a shame that life drove someone to do such a horrible act
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What happened is absolutely dreadful. It must have been a terrifying experience for those people living in Whitehaven and surrounding areas.
Its obvious that this mans mind had gone, for whatever reason. That does not excuse what he has done in any way, but it sounds like he was not the sort of person to go off on a shooting spree.
It seems a family feud over a will may have been the cause. Being in the same position myself, I can identify the frustration he must have been feeling. Although I hasten to add that I have certainly not contemplated taking action on the other parties involved.
I often say, and this goes to prove, that you do not know when you leave home, what may happen. Thats why I aim to live life to the full, each and every day.
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It is truely terrible and terrifiying all at the same time. :'(
And I agree with Roxy, live each day to the fullest, don't sweat the small stuff and thank your lucky stars for what you've got - we never know what's round the corner.
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It was quite scary as was out cycling and had past his house and that of his brother before they found him. Like I say I was out cycling when I heard he was in my village and I had left the kids home alone - Very scary and quite a rush to get home.
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Goodness Chriso, that must have been really frightening, knowing that man was out there - you could have met him. Thank goodness you didn't and made it home ok.
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Such a shame for everyone in Cumbria that someone can go round and indiscrimantly kill people going about their day to day, unfortunately we will never know what drove this man to go and such a devastating rampage. The ripple effect on that community will not heal for generations and i think we are all at a loss as to what they must be feeling.
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Goodness Chriso, that must have been really frightening, knowing that man was out there - you could have met him. Thank goodness you didn't and made it home ok.
You don't realise how luck I was, I think if he had seen me he would have shot me as he always stared or sometimes drove too close and I used to give him a wave with either one finger or two depending how I felt. :-\
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Bloody hell mate i think the man upstairs was shining on you.
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As I see it You never know do you.What sets these people off.They are as right as rain then wooof They become mentally deranged.We had several of them in SLDD at the Institute when I helped out.Nothing like as bad as this one but my word they certainly can cause some disruption among the others. :farmer:
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It does sound like you were very lucky indeed going off what you said in your last post.
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So glad you were lucky. I hope you will soon recover from the trauma. You can always talk to us.
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This has been a tragedy beyond words, we had a lecture recently at an army reunion, warning that Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, can often stay dormant and surface many years later, 20 years not being unusual, any disturbances in sleep, or other uncharacteristic behaviour, needs to be investigated, never ignor it, too many of my CIA's have done so and have long term problems as a result.
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Thanks for all the care guys. :bouquet:
I have been involved in the case in another role and they also offer counselling, not that I think I need any, been away camping with my daughter and friends and sleeping like a log.
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That is good news Chriso When our eldest son was killed in a motorcycle accident I was fine but it made Kath very poorly.But we have the services of the best Medical Center and Doctor in town.and her treatment was out of this world .The Doctor even called to see how she was after evening surgery A very caring dedicated man is Doctor Twomey :farmer:
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Bloody hell chriso, someone was watching over you that day!!! There are not really any words are there when something like this happens. x
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One thing it teaches us all is the value of our lives!! You never know when your numbers up!! unlike farm animals!!!! I went to Dunblane today and it reminded me of their sad time. We are all capable of such things but God forbid, it rarely happens, poor soles who went about their daily lives and had no idea of their fate :'(