I lived and worked for years in the same area I grew up so moving enabled me to be myslef...if I'd had gone out like I do here people would say I'd let myself go etc etc..I have not let myself go I am just me and love that freedom!!!!!!! I remeber years ago reading an article about Bidget Bardot, whe was on the beech with a dog, the papers said basicaly look at rough the sex kitten looks now...I was so mad as she was beautiful in my eyes and being herself...why do you need designer or matching outfits, makeup, plastic surgery and perfect figure and hair to have not let yourself go??mind you, thinking about it...I have let myself go...got out of the rat race thats what!!! love it