Found some more today, I have a postcard photo of my gran and two of her three children, one my dad, the photo was taken after the death of her husband, and included her older brother who was visiting. The postcard was addressed to the brother and comments were made about the lovely view, the birds and the trees and ended with a "for all we have been through xxx" that made me wounder then, I looked at the 1881 census and found there were mum dad and seven children, yet in the 1891 census, no father and only two of those children plus another younger brother,all those deaths in 20 years and the reason she mentioned the wildlife was she had lived most of her adult life in Manchester!! Interesting stuff. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzwhops, sorry to bore you all ;)