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Title: obsessions
Post by: sheila on October 18, 2009, 10:20:22 am
A psychiatrist was conducting a group therapy session with four young mothers and their small children.
 
"You all have obsessions" he observed.
 
To the first mother, Mary, he said, "You are obsessed with eating. You've even named your daughter Candy"
 
He turned to the second mother, Ann "Your obsession is with money. Again it manifests itself in your child's name, Penny"
 
He turned to the third mother, Kathy "Your obsession is alcohol.  This too shows itself in your child's name, Brandy"
 
At this point, the fourth mother, Joyce, quietly got up, took her little boy by the hand and whispered .....
"Come on Dick, this guy has no idea what he's talking about.  Let's pick Willy up from school and go home"
 
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: HappyHippy on October 18, 2009, 10:27:30 am
 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: Rosemary on October 19, 2009, 02:36:03 pm
 ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: jameslindsay on October 19, 2009, 03:52:37 pm
Ok I am sure we all  have them, obsessions, so what is your one???


I am addicted to "lypsyl", my GP says I can't be but I am. Ever since I was diagnosed with diabetes 6 years ago I have been left feeing that my lips are always dry. If I go anywhere and discover I don't have any on me - panic attack!! And I don't like any of the flavoured ones, yes I am mental!!!!

Come on Sandy entertain us... ;) :) ::) :P :bouquet:
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: sabrina on October 19, 2009, 04:01:49 pm
apart from always having to have chocolate in the house just in case I want some you understand my main obsession is checking the handbrake is on when I park my car. I will park, get out and walk away but I always have to go back and double check even when I know it will be on.  ::)
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: little blue on October 19, 2009, 07:47:45 pm
OCD..
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: jameslindsay on October 19, 2009, 08:19:54 pm
OCD..

Littleblue, forgive my stupidity but what does OCD mean?
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: MiriMaran on October 19, 2009, 08:22:14 pm
 ;D ;D ;D

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: jameslindsay on October 19, 2009, 08:23:30 pm
Ah, I did say I was stupid, thanks :)
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: doganjo on October 19, 2009, 09:10:20 pm
You're not stupid, James - it's just that everyone who has a disorder with a long name has to abbreviate their label because no-one would know what it is otherwise. ;) ;D ;D
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: Snoopy on October 23, 2009, 12:17:50 pm
I am free of these obsessions since I gave up smoking -
couldn't go to bed without having one or three to wake up with
in the morning with my three cups of coffee

Now I am obsession free - i think,  ??? yes I am. ::) ;D
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: doganjo on October 23, 2009, 01:32:25 pm
I am free of these obsessions since I gave up smoking -
couldn't go to bed without having one or three to wake up with
in the morning with my three cups of coffee

Now I am obsession free - i think,  ??? yes I am. ::) ;D

You ARE joking, Aren't you? ::) ::)  TAS forum is an obsession! ;) ;D ;D
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: cmorrell on October 23, 2009, 01:54:25 pm
OCD..

That's OCB for Behaviour these days.. they don't like using the word Disorder any longer!
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: little blue on October 23, 2009, 08:08:23 pm
OCD..

That's OCB for Behaviour these days.. they don't like using the word Disorder any longer!

Kind of a difference, as OCBs are present in many other 'conditions' (for want of a better term) whereas OCD is a recognised condition (can get treatment, state it on a sick note or SEN - thats Statement of Educationa needs! etc)
Terms change all the time, but still get misunderstood...
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: cmorrell on October 23, 2009, 08:36:47 pm
Kind of a difference, as OCBs are present in many other 'conditions' (for want of a better term) whereas OCD is a recognised condition (can get treatment, state it on a sick note or SEN - thats Statement of Educationa needs! etc)
Terms change all the time, but still get misunderstood...
I don't suppose you have an online (or print) reference you could point me at for that type of use? I'm trying to recall the source that stated there was a general move from use of "disorder" to "behaviour" for numerous conditions to avoid the perceived stigma of the word "disorder". It specifically used the example of OCD/OCB, so I'd like to locate that and check against other sources if possible.
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: little blue on October 24, 2009, 02:40:05 pm
No but I'll look.
Both personally and professionally, I have experience of both OCD (as a conditon in its own right) and OCBs relating to people with Autistic spectrum 'disorder', panic, ADD, ADHD, PDA, agoraphobia and others.
I admit my first post was meant tongue-in-cheek, relating to the 'checking' of handbrake.
Its generally agreed among professionals that we all display some level of "autistic tendancies" and I'm sure OCD/OCBs can be fitted into that statement (without meaning to cause offense!)
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: little blue on October 24, 2009, 03:15:09 pm
psy.ucsd.edu/autism/WinterIMFAR2002.doc

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15928364   (very short, I can't access the whole report)

http://www.researchautism.net/asditem.ikml?print&ra=43&infolevel=4&t=3 (you wouldnt say someone with apergers/asd had OCD, but many display OCBs.  but some people may display both conditions together (co-morbidity). Are you with me?!)

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/adhd/anxiety.htm  (keep reading, its quite far down!)
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: cmorrell on October 24, 2009, 03:29:10 pm
Thanks for the links. I'll work through those and cross-reference with the source that led me to "correct" OCD to OCB, assuming I can find it of course. Your end comments make sense, seems like a sensible differentiation between the two uses.
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: little blue on October 24, 2009, 03:48:24 pm
Can I ask why your interest?  Sounds lilke your writing a research paper?  (you dont have to answer if you dont want!) If you find the ocd/b source, let me know...
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: cmorrell on October 24, 2009, 04:18:29 pm
I'm studying psychology with the OU and doing a training course with NAS mid-November, so quite helpful the examples you picked revolve around autism :) I've sourced a PDF of the 2nd report you referenced so if you have an interest in it yourself, PM your email address to me.
Title: Re: obsessions
Post by: little blue on October 24, 2009, 06:44:57 pm
brill, will do.  the majority of young people I work with have an ASD, and of course some have the other conditions I mentioned.  The NAS course with undoubtedly be v informative, as long as it doesnt generalise - its easy to see the condition not the person sometimes.
(sorry, I'll stop now....)