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Livestock => Pigs => Topic started by: gavin davies on August 08, 2013, 10:03:46 pm

Title: can someone help or advise
Post by: gavin davies on August 08, 2013, 10:03:46 pm
Hi everyone I am in a bit of a pickle at the moment and was wondering if someone can help me out or advise as my wife was due to give birth I had finally decided to take the pigs to slaughter they were supposed to go last week but the person who was supposed to help decided to get drunk and crash into a post van so he has lost his licence and had to sell all his vehicles so I decided to keep the pigs until after baby was born and try and sort something then but just has my luck is at the moment my wife went into labour on monday but had major complications and both wife and daughter are very ill in hospital so I am travelling home in the mornings and night just to feed the pigs which is a 40 round trip and with a 4 year on school holidays basically living in the hospital is not nice for him either  there just are not enough hours in the day and was wondering if there was someone on here who would take the pigs either as pets or even if they wanted to take them straight to slaughter as its really worrying me as I dont want to leave the hospital but I dont want the pigs to suffer as all the family are down the hospital at the moment there is nobody else who I can ask to feed them for me or can someone think of another solution there is nobody on the allotment at the moment either only the veg growers and they are only there a couple of times a week sorry for the long winded post
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Post by: Eve on August 08, 2013, 10:06:25 pm
Where are you based?
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Post by: gavin davies on August 08, 2013, 10:24:18 pm
Sorry south wales
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Post by: Possum on August 08, 2013, 10:37:05 pm
Really sorry to hear about this. It must feel terrible. I'm in Somerset, so can't help i'm afraid, but I'm sure there will be someone nearer who can lend a hand. I do hope that your wife and baby recover quickly.
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Post by: mojocafa on August 08, 2013, 10:47:26 pm
Sorry I can't help but wanted to express that I can understand the stress,  chaos and worry you are going through and you must look after yourself . You can't look after anyone or thing ifyou don't look after you.
It is so difficult juggling everything . I hope someone comes along that can help and I hope your wife and baby make a speedy recovery :hug:
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Post by: NetherBrae on August 08, 2013, 11:43:25 pm
I can't help as I'm in Scotland but my mum is South Wales. What's your nearest town? If you're close ish by, she may be able to help with daily feeding until you get something else sorted.
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Post by: ferretkeeper on August 09, 2013, 08:33:21 am
Gavin I've PM'd you - I should be able to do something quickly to help!
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Post by: Fowgill Farm on August 09, 2013, 09:27:16 am
gavin
hope you get something sorted out in all respects.
 :hug:  to you all
 :fc:  mandy :pig:
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Post by: Mammyshaz on August 09, 2013, 09:40:42 am
Such a stressful situation  :hug: wish I was closer to help out. Wishing your wife and baby a speedy recovery and hope ferret keeper has a solution   :fc:
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Post by: Bumblebear on August 09, 2013, 10:45:28 am
I'm in norfolk so can't offer practical help,but just wanting to say ihone babe and mum are home and well soon.
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Post by: hughesy on August 09, 2013, 10:55:49 am
Tough times Gavin. Hang in there hopefully someone local will be along soon to help.
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Post by: Tamsaddle on August 09, 2013, 01:16:56 pm
"South Wales" is quite a large area - could you be more specific as to where your pigs are?
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Post by: Backinwellies on August 09, 2013, 01:23:40 pm
There are a lot of us in south wales who maybe able to help if we knew where you are.  :hug:
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Post by: gavin davies on August 09, 2013, 02:08:19 pm
Porth 3 miles from pontypridd cf40 is the postcode sorry
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Post by: fifisoo on August 09, 2013, 09:15:06 pm
Hope your wife and baby recover soon x

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Post by: mowhaugh on August 09, 2013, 09:43:35 pm
Sorry I am too far away to do anything to help, but thinking of you and your family - congratulations on your new daughter, and I hope she and you wife get well soon.  Do they have any creche facilities for your son at the hospital at all?  Have you spoken to Family Support?  We have been through something very similar quite recently, and there was actually quite a lot of help available, but you had to keep asking to access it.  Best of luck.
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Post by: Tudful Tamworths on August 11, 2013, 11:16:17 pm
Gavin - sorry for the late reply, but I've only just spotted this. Did ferretkeeper come to your rescue? If not, give me a ring. You've got my number. Will help if I can.
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Post by: gavin davies on August 13, 2013, 08:40:51 pm
Hi liz thanks yes they have been sorted now by helen  thank you everyone for messages of support
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Post by: Tudful Tamworths on August 13, 2013, 11:54:59 pm
If you'd just rung me, I'd have sorted something. Glad Helen has come to the rescue.











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Post by: Backinwellies on August 14, 2013, 03:55:56 pm
Almost volunteered you Liz ... but thought you would have seen it
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Post by: Tudful Tamworths on August 15, 2013, 11:41:01 pm
I don't sit at the computer all day...