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Community => Coffee Lounge => Topic started by: bangbang on August 20, 2012, 10:25:47 pm

Title: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: bangbang on August 20, 2012, 10:25:47 pm
I know you can read this so please come back to us.
YOU, your help, and advice are missed already..

sign this partition!

Bangbang
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: WaltDisneyWorld on August 20, 2012, 10:32:05 pm
Hear Hear  :fc:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 20, 2012, 10:36:49 pm
I'm back, sorry, it was pretty silly of me to delete my account. Sweet of you though  :-*

I felt got at. But reading the rest of the thread, it's got pretty heated and oddly that makes me feel less singled out and there are people it seems (bless you DITW and YL) who also feel strongly about it as I do.

Stretched a bit thin at the moment, parents were in Oz visiting brother for 6 weeks so yours truly looking after their smallholding half an hour away, as well as my own, then Dad taken very ill, barely got back to the UK, into hospital, heart op tomorrow, so add three hour round trips visiting as well.

So please excuse my touchiness <embarrassed>

Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Dan on August 20, 2012, 10:39:44 pm
I'm back, sorry, it was pretty silly of me to delete my account. Sweet of you though  :-*

I felt got at. But reading the rest of the thread, it's got pretty heated and oddly that makes me feel less singled out and there are people it seems (bless you DITW and YL) who also feel strongly about it as I do.

I'm sorry, it was never my intention, honestly. :bouquet: Just a robust difference of opinion, at the wrong time.

And I need to find more emoticons and a less self-righteous tone of voice. :-\

Glad you're back though. :)
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Lesley Silvester on August 20, 2012, 10:41:03 pm
I hadn't picked up that you'd gone but I'm glad it was only temporary.  I value your advice.
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: bangbang on August 20, 2012, 10:41:30 pm
So what time of night do you call this to come in eehh??
Welcome back! :wave: :wave: :thumbsup: :excited:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 20, 2012, 10:43:48 pm
Thanks Dan  :-*

I need to preview my posts for tone too. Yeh, just a difference of opinion  :)

You are all such sweethearts - BangBang, you're making me smile  :-*
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Rosemary on August 20, 2012, 10:44:42 pm
Glad you're back and sorry you're having a bit of a hard time just now. Hope your Dad recovers well from his surgery  :bouquet:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 20, 2012, 10:45:20 pm
Thanks Rosemary  :)
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Moleskins on August 20, 2012, 10:54:47 pm
So we've now got a valued member whose advice is good showing as a newbie  :innocent:
All that and I only turned my back for 5 mins to take the dog out  :D
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: deepinthewoods on August 20, 2012, 10:57:28 pm
 :thumbsup:
group :hug:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 20, 2012, 10:59:24 pm
Bless you  :hug: back (I feel pretty silly now, but am enjoying the  :hug:)
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: in the hills on August 20, 2012, 11:04:10 pm
Thank goodness, Jaykay.  :relief:   ;D


Hope your father's surgery goes well  :bouquet: . You must be feeling exhausted.[size=78%] [/size]




Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Moleskins on August 20, 2012, 11:05:16 pm
Tempted to resign then come back so I can have a hug but worried nobody would miss me ;D
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 20, 2012, 11:06:21 pm
I'll give you a  :hug: so's you don't have to - 'course we'd miss you!
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Moleskins on August 20, 2012, 11:08:35 pm
 :relief:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Rosemary on August 20, 2012, 11:12:55 pm
The falling out is almost worth it for the making up :innocent:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 20, 2012, 11:16:52 pm
We need a 'blushing with embarrassment' emotiwhatsit (http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k70/jaykayg/emoticons/eb64905e.jpg)

But yes, how to make a frazzled smallholder feel better  :-*
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Post by: RUSTYME on August 20, 2012, 11:35:00 pm
Oh god , you back already ? And there i was getting the kitchen knife out for a little back stabbing ! :-)
glad you are back mate , hope your dad gets better soon . Try to take things easy too , easier said than done though i know .
Bugger , missed the hugs !
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 20, 2012, 11:36:11 pm
Thanks Rusty  :hug:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: mab on August 20, 2012, 11:41:50 pm
I do like a happy ending  :) even though you're back before I knew you'd gone  ;D .

 :fc: for your father.

m
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Pedwardine on August 21, 2012, 03:10:30 am
Don't know what happened but so glad you're still here. I value you lots.  :wave:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 21, 2012, 03:22:03 am
Thank you both Mab and Pedwardine  :-*
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: SallyintNorth on August 21, 2012, 04:29:09 am
Blimey, turn my back for less than 24 hours and...

Thank goodness you came back jaykay  :hug:   Shout if there's anything I can do.  :-*
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: tizaala on August 21, 2012, 07:37:08 am
Busy day yesterday , turned pooter off 5pm till 07oo this morning , Did I miss a good row ? what , who where when why the 'kinell do I always miss out on all the fun? I'm not up to speed this morning, can't leave you lot unsupervised for five minutes , worse than kids,  :rant:
 
Well the main thing is that Jaykay is back (wherever from is anybodys guess )
the bad news is , I'm not going anywhere, so hard luck. :innocent:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Bionic on August 21, 2012, 07:38:25 am
Sorry, I must have missed what was going on but I am glad you are back Jaykay.  I hope your dad recovers well from his op too  :fc:
Sally
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: lill on August 21, 2012, 09:29:57 am
On this forum from time to time we will fall out over what someone says or don't say. It is the most honest forum i have came across. Yes we will throw the toys out the pram and be like spoilt wee brats that don't get there own way, but remember all contributors are entitled to their opinion and it is their opinion. Some can interprate words written and blow the hole thing out of proportion and then it is WW3. Being honest to folk with the answer they were looking for or not looking for is better than telling a lot of shite on this forum and being too faced. Yes the truth may hurt but sometimes it is needed to be said. I know that Robert got me shoved into the bad baby corner on several occasions and when i made him his own account he was not so abrupt. Now what smiley faces can i put on this, well i am sitting her pondering cant decide so its just being posted.
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: plumseverywhere on August 21, 2012, 09:57:41 am
So pleased Jaykay is back - I know she's one of the people I'd miss terribly (so don't go again Jaykay!!!) Hope all is OK for you, sounds like a lot of stress  :bouquet:




Lill, I remember when Robert posted as you - shouldn't laugh but.... :roflanim:   Tony would be so sleeping-in-the-garden if he did that to me and I already have to apologise to my FB friends from time to time after he posts things that are contentious, likely to incite aggravation and have actually lost me several FB friends (although no real loss as they weren't true friends to get upset when my husband called Jeffrey Archer that 'bad' word in defence of me reading 50 shades and being told I was common for doing so.... :innocent:   ) And THAT is why Mr Plums is not an accidental smallholder - he is a liability  ;) [size=78%] [/size]
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Fowgill Farm on August 21, 2012, 10:30:33 am
Missed this completely but glad to hear it was just a feather shake in a chicken coop! ;D
All done & dusted.
mandy  :pig:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Fronhaul on August 21, 2012, 11:36:37 am
That will teach me to keep wandering in and out, I failed to notice someone whose posts I try and follow because they are always helpful had disappeared.   Hope all is well with your father and sit still woman.  You are needed!
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Lesley Silvester on August 21, 2012, 03:14:01 pm

the bad news is , I'm not going anywhere, so hard luck. :innocent:

We noticed that, Tiz.  No matter how rude we are to you.   ;) ;) ;)    :roflanim:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: suziequeue on August 21, 2012, 05:43:25 pm
 :hug:


Glad you came back JK
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 21, 2012, 06:23:47 pm
  :-*

And I'm very glad Tiz is going nowhere - can't have everyone throwing hissy fits  ;)
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Lesley Silvester on August 21, 2012, 06:29:50 pm
Tiz knows we love him.  And Mrs Tiz.
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Old Shep on August 21, 2012, 08:33:14 pm
welcome back Jaykay! My heart sank when I read you'd gone  :gloomy:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Mallows Flock on August 21, 2012, 08:41:33 pm
I have only just read this thread but glad everything is back to normal. Jaykay has always given me good advice onmy postings! Best wishes for you and your family   :bouquet:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Rosemary on August 21, 2012, 08:55:23 pm
How's your Dad, jaykay?
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: doganjo on August 21, 2012, 09:08:42 pm
Tempted to resign then come back so I can have a hug but worried nobody would miss me ;D
I would Moley!  :excited: :wave: :love:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 21, 2012, 09:20:29 pm
Hey, Annie  ;D  :wave:

Thanks Shep and MF  :-*

Dad's op went well thank Rosemary and Mum, who wanted to visit on her own tonight, says his heart is already working much better and therefore he feels better  :relief:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: plumseverywhere on August 21, 2012, 09:21:52 pm

Dad's op went well thank Rosemary and Mum, who wanted to visit on her own tonight, says his heart is already working much better and therefore he feels better  :relief:


Brilliant news Jaykay  :bouquet:   :)
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: in the hills on August 21, 2012, 09:24:30 pm
That is good news, Jaykay. Hope he makes a speedy recovery.  :bouquet:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: doganjo on August 21, 2012, 09:26:09 pm
Just catching up - glad op went well and Dad is getting better.  Big weight off your shoulders  ::) :love:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: SallyintNorth on August 21, 2012, 09:35:01 pm
Thank goodness for that, jaykay  :relief:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Brucklay on August 21, 2012, 09:41:50 pm
That's great your Dad's doing better Jaykay - what a worry for you - thinking of you x
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Rosemary on August 21, 2012, 09:57:49 pm
So glad he's doing well  :thumbsup:
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Moleskins on August 21, 2012, 11:24:42 pm
Tempted to resign then come back so I can have a hug but worried nobody would miss me ;D
I would Moley!  :excited: :wave: :love:
You'd miss me ! I'm stunned.
Or you'd resign if you were me  :D
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Post by: RUSTYME on August 21, 2012, 11:32:22 pm
Great news jk . All the best to your dad .
Cheers Russ x
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: jaykay on August 22, 2012, 08:04:33 am
Thanks Russ  :thumbsup: Hoping he's home and hassling us all before long  ;)
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Lesley Silvester on August 23, 2012, 10:56:29 pm
Glad to hear your dad's operation was a success, Jaykay.  Hope he's soon home.
Title: Re: JAYKAY !!!!!
Post by: Mammyshaz on August 27, 2012, 08:16:33 pm
I seemed to have missed all the goings ons last week, but glad you've gone nowhere jaykay. Glad your dad is on the mend whatever it was that took him down  :bouquet: