The Accidental Smallholder Forum
Community => Coffee Lounge => Topic started by: daddymatty82 on September 24, 2010, 02:00:02 pm
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sorry everyone i know iv got under some peoples skin and may have offended people so today after alot of troubles im sorry but i have leave i got a call from the landlady saying she saw what i wrote online so as i dont know where or what i said but as she says its slanderous. so as to not offend anyone again im limiting my forums if you still want to know me or still want to have chat pm me or at least comment and il pass on my email or other means of contact cheers for a good time that i have had on here and the knoledge i have gained through this site hope to hear from you i will be gone on sunday to give time on replys etc cheers all have fun matty
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Ta tar :wave:, not sure how you offended anyone but there you go, it's easy to do on tinternet!!! I type quicker than my brain works and so often post stuff I wish I had not!!!!!
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oh dear, that's a shame - can't you change your username and stay? I didn't think you'd offended anyone on here?
Sandy's right - the written word is hard to interpret at times so offence can be taken when none is meant. if its a case of what's happening with the landlady then please don't go from here :)
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well atm im limiting my sources so i can get an idea of where she saw it and what was said but untill i know how she got the info and how i was slandering this other bloke its just to cover my back i dont want to go but if anyone has facebook please pm me and il add you. yes its my fault yes i do write stuff without thinking but i mean no harm in what i say but if they say its bad then i can only apolagise and call it quits atm im deleting most of my posts so if you commented on something and cannot find it you will now know why.
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If someone is petty enough to take something that serious then they are not worthy of anyones time. You should not let that stop you being who you are & saying what you think. What happened to freedom of speech?????? We are allowed our opinions weather others like it or not.
Don't leave this site if your happy here because someone don't like what you have written. They don't have to read it if they don't like it.
b*****ks to them is what I say. I have upset lots of people by not thinking about what I say, it happens. You never mean to do these things & if people weren't so small minded they would look past these things.
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Hiya,
Just had a quick scan thru.....maybe its the recent comments about the condition of the other horses in your fields ????? I am just looking at it from the other owners point of view.!!! .....NOT MINE!! I personally think that youy shouldnt have to stop this forum. .
.. maybe a lesson to us all that this is a very small world and you never know who may read your posts. :-P
Anyway, dont crawl under a rock... if you have made a mistake (we all do) , learn from it and hold your head up!
Cheers Emma T
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have pm'd you.
agree with Emma - you shouldn't have to stop using TAS. at the end of the day, all you said was that the horses were a bit lardy ::)
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Hi,
I agree, stay on the forum and continue to say what you think and believe.
Don't worry about upsetting people by what you say, everyone on here is a "grown up" and if they dont like what you say, then they can choose to disagree or simply ignore your post.
cheers
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well i am here for a while and had a great time im moving my girl sunday and then thats it rid of that place.
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Ach! Dont worry about it Daddymatty, I often upset people lol look at the market section to see my recent effort! I even had the 'boss' telling me off. BTW I stand by what I said but thats a whole different subject. :D
You will always be welcome here, Im sure, for as long as you wish to post. ;D
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S***, I stay off for a few days and miss all the fun, isnt that always the way!! Well at least it wasnt me offending everyone this time!! Come back............ we dont care....... we all do it!1lol
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Hi, dont know what you have written but if it is based on fact or truth then it is not slanderous. Dont worry about it, I have read many a post on all kinds of forums that border on slanderous (sometimes murderous) LOL but what a ridiculous world we live in if we take notice of everything that is written and react to it. As a previous poster said, just learn from it and move on, dont go if this forum is useful and helpful (which it is) :farmer:
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If someone is petty enough to take something that serious then they are not worthy of anyones time. You should not let that stop you being who you are & saying what you think. What happened to freedom of speech?????? We are allowed our opinions weather others like it or not.
b*****ks to them is what I say. I have upset lots of people by not thinking about what I say, it happens. You never mean to do these things & if people weren't so small minded they would look past these things.
My sentiments exactly ;)
What's it got to do with yer landlady anyways ?
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Your bound to get 'flamed' in 'real time' if you slag someone's horses off (thats the horse world for you!) ;) - but it doesn't necessarily make you wrong to do so. This situation should not mean that you need to feel threatened just for giving your opinion on a subject matter. You maybe right, you maybe wrong - we've all been both - sometimes we have to eat humble pie sometimes we dont, but we've all been there with you.
Yes in future you may think 'I better not write that, as I could be taken the wrong way' but thats a skill we can only develop. I spend ages writing every forum post I make so as to be sure that I cannot be misconstrued (or partly because my written english is s**t!)
You obviously have not broken any terms on TAS as your profile would have been deleted, so dont go - stay join the conversation.
Ta
Barry
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thankyou everyone for the support means so much i am the kind of person that will always win at what i do i feel i have not slandered anybody and only told the truth. As it seams i have spys watching me of the ex landlady i will most proberly stay. But will stay off untill i find out which source it was that whatever i said was taken from so sunday will be my last day atm for a while as i dont want to leave something i like doing. But as i have a young daughter i cannot risk being reported to the old bill so am goin to lay low or at least take a bk seat for a while so if you all ever want a chat while im not here pm me as i wont post for a while. If that at all makes sense. And can i just say i really think of you all like a great big family now as there are a few goodens out there thankz guys matty.
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Sorry to hear you are leaving. Some people are easy offended and , I think they should keep to themselves. I am always things I shouldnt. Good Luck, may see u on FB
Cheers Helen
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Thats the trouble with forums you dont really know folk. I had some ducks for sale on a local forum and got some really stupid questions about them .One person who wanted to buy them all, I had already been warned about and is one of the cruelest people in Shetland , a few years ago he was prosecuted for pony cruelty and was banned and now can only buy anon over t'internet.
I did not read anything slanderous in your posts, but obviuosly she has not read ,only been told with exagerations what you have said. I would think what you said shows you care and there is nothing wrong with that,and care about her land at that! Perhaps when she sees things herself she will see things differently. I f she doesnt then your better off out of it anyway. Trouble with typing you cant see or hear how things are actually 'meant'. Keep in touch if I dont read you elsewhere. :-*
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BTW Slander is said, libel is written. ;) Sooo your ex landlady couldnt have seen anything slanderous. lol
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Some people just twist things, some make things up and some squeeze as much out of you to use against you!!!! I had a good friend and neighbour some years ago who was a "nit nurse" and she knew I was working with one of her regular children in the school, now I knew how she liked to squeeze info out of people so said very little other than bits about our family, shopping weather etc, she kept asking me about this child wanting me to say something, I just said they were fine and changed the subject, then, back at the School I used to work in, I was asked to speak to the School Nurse and she said she had been told I was talking about said child in public, saying he smells etc...now that WAS made up and from that day on I have noticed lot's of people do that, ask you questions and use what you say against you, now thats cruel. >:(
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Its your exlandladiy's problem not yours. Its pathetic that she has to spy on you to see what you are doing now you have left her yard. She obviously has a sad little life only made liveable by denegrating others. Dont empower her by allowing her to push you off TAS. Life is far too short.
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well so say i was 'muscleing' my way in. Connot remember her words exactly but all i done was rebuild the fence put leccy fence up to stop his animals from rubbing and breaking the fence then i closed the gate into the small paddock then cut the small paddock from waist high stingers thistles and docks to about 6 inchs of grass as i kept everything short with a brush cutter and left his animals out the small paddock as my filly had been wormed and was wanting to minimise the worm burden on my grazing but was told as i had grass and if had none i had to cut mine in half so he could let his 4 have even more land . So its a case of i do all the hard work he gets all the benifits even though he has won now he got what he wanted so now im on the look out for grass keep and hay for this winter as now lost my hay supplier
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You have nothing to worry about from the old bill. They wouldn't get involved with something so petty. It would just be wasting their time. Also it would probably be classed as a civil dispute & they don't like to be involved with such things.
Just carry on as you are Matty man and don't worry about it. Look after yourself & your own & b*****ks to the simple minded idiots out there
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well im happy ish now im rid of old land am in with my dads sheep well 1 of 2 paddocks OH and mum walked 2 mile from the old place to the new and my pony handled great. 1st time we got her on to the road in 3 mths since i got her but now it saves on rent and fuel downside is i have now got to take water down dad has a 500 gallon bowser so not all bad but in winter it will be tough when it freezes but hey ho worse comes to worse will have to invest in barrals and take them down in the back of the car all things we can work around next obstical is getting a rug and getting hay sorted it means we need to look at the finacial side of things we cannot store much really and would be buying in 2 round bales a month so its meaning me doing some thinking and getting the tractor fixed sorted for collecting the hay as minamise the cost of delivery as thats and extra 10er but any way im happy now
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Good for you Matty. Just keep smiling & never let them grind you down 8) 8) 8) 8) 8) 8)
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Well said Mick, b*****ks was one of my fathers sayings. I asked what it meant once. My dad told me it was an irish word, meaning does anyone want a cup of coffee, lol
Cheers Helen
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Well said Mick, b*****ks was one of my fathers sayings. I asked what it meant once. My dad told me it was an irish word, meaning does anyone want a cup of coffee, lol
Cheers Helen
Ha ha ha love it Helen.......
When I was very young my father took me to work with him sometimes. He worked with an Irish bloke who he had known for a lot of years & as we went to the canteen this bloke stubbed his finger on the door on the way in. He said 'b*****ks' & when I asked him about it he said it means 'no thanks'. My granny knocked me off my feet when she asked if I wanted a drink & I said 'b*****ks'. Soon learned not to believe a word of anyone on a site
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Chin up mate, sounds like your better off moved anyway ;D
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In the supermarket Saturday 2 french couples chatting away one todler in trolley. Toddller tried for several minutes to get his mother's attention and then announced very loudly in English; " I am f***ing fed up. " Oddly no one in the supermarket needed a translation, and the whole place was in hysterics.
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Ha ha ha kids are great. ;D ;D ;D ;D
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This one was ultra cute
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Love it..... ;D ;D ;D ;D Makes it even funnier
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;D ;D ;D ;D made me laugh out load...... ;D
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I heard you laughing Sandy ;D ;D ;D ;D
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thought about what everyone said i have now moved out and rid of the place in the new place now all i need is a job to top it off and i will be happy but thanks to all you guys that commented said what the hell not letting noone get me down specialy when they dont know what there talking about so thankyou guys&gals
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You're welcome - we're all friends on here! Good luck with the job hunting, it's hard just now. Let us know how you get on.
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Good luck Matty man. Keep looking forward 8) 8) 8) 8)
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Its great you are going forward and staying here. :D
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I feel a bit like lassy, you stay a while, make some friends then move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I feel a bit like lassy, you stay a while, make some friends then move on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But you're not moving on this time are you? ;) ;D