Devonlady, last year the butcher's shop attached to the abattoir did the cutting for us, to a list that I provided. They made mistakes, eg slicing up the bacon shoulders instead of leaving them as joints as asked, and all the bacon was thick cut, so now I know to ask for it to be thin sliced. Also am not sure which cuts are best for sausage, I assume belly and shoulder can be used for that, but last time we just had the neck and trim as sausages and it wasn't nearly enough.
This time I've been recommended an abattoir which is nearer to us (I had no problem with the first one, btw) and there is a separate butcher close by where they will weigh and pack and label the meat instead of just giving us back huge boxes full of raw meat cuts.
I'm just interested in what other people ask for, to compare notes!