I'm just down the road from you (Brabourne, between Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone) so you're welcome to pop over here although I have none of the four legged variety (and have decided to steer clear for now). We moved in last year and I've got chickens, ducks, geese, veges, fruit trees old and new and bees coming soon. We've just had planning permission for a holiday cottage approved (yay!) and to be honest the income from that will eclipse everything else! I've just been doing my sums and the eggs are still costing over £2 each, ignoring the initial set-up costs of the run and housing. Given that I'll be selling them for £1.30 a half dozen, I'll make over £11 loss per pack which gives you an idea of the financial challenges of living the dream. Best way to start is buy a place with a bit of land and gradually build up, imho. I have the luxury of a husband working hard in London to finance our 'dream' so we may not be a typical smallholding - we're still quite capital rich until we spend the rest on holiday cottage and vineyard and by then we'll poor as church mice for several years.
I also have copies of various books you might want to borrow...
Just PM me if you fancy coming over (would suggest after the school holidays if you want to keep your ear drums in tact).
H