This is a very thought- provoking subject. We often say "I hope I die before I get old" but there's nothing wrong with getting old, it's getting ill and old. that's the problem. Surely if we choose our health professionals with more care, making sure that humanity was as high on their list of qualifications as their skills, and then left life or death decisions to them, getting old, being sick, and ultimately dying might become a far less frightening process for all involved. We do, after all, have our animals put down before things get too bad for them, if at all possible, Even though it's sometimes a very difficult decision, it's our responsibility to take it, so surely, when people we love are dying it's best to let them go, however badly that affects us.